So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. [Matthew 5:23-24 ESV]
I do not want to leave the impression that for the Christian all suffering is suffering for righteousness’ sake. More often we suffer because of our own sin or as a consequence of someone’s sin rather than because of our relationship with Christ. We may bring suffering upon ourselves. We may experience suffering because of our proximity to sin, as a result of historical sin or because of unrecognized sin.
Christian’s are redeemed and sanctified yet continue to live in the world, in their sinful flesh. Many, because of allowing sin to have a place in their lives continue to violate God’s will and sin against their “brother.” Sin’s effects may carry over generations of families, cross geographic boarders and span history. Adam’s sin is carried by all of mankind. David sinned and the entire nation suffered. God’s third statement declares those who worship idols will teach their children to worship idols. Children learn to sin from those around them and then teach others to sin.
You shall not make for yourself a carved image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is on the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. You shall not bow down to them or serve them; for I the LORD your God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing steadfast love to thousands of those who love me and keep my commandments. [Deuteronomy 5:8-10 ESV]
Sin is a reality in the fallen world. Though Christians are redeemed, Christians still sin. Sin stops worship. When we sin against another person we are sinning against two, against the other person and against God. This is not a matter of debate. All sin is first rebellion against God.
Jesus is explicit. If anyone has something against us because of our sin then we cannot worship God. He uses a word which means anything regardless of the size, intensity, relevancy or even knowledge. You, the citizen of the kingdom of heaven, are required to make your relationship with the offended person right. This does not include manufactured offenses based upon any person’s ungodly standard. This is sin violating God’s standards against a person created in the image of God.
Before this can happen there must be an acknowledgment of the wrong done, not by the party offended but by the offender. It is not the responsibility of the person who holds the offense to request reconciliation but the person who committed the sin. Admitting sin is almost impossible for any unless directed by the Holy Spirit and seen through the new eyes of the citizen of the kingdom of heaven. When Christians sin they have to recognize the sin, that it has compromised their relationship with God and with the other person and then mourn of the consequences of sin. Damaged and broken relationships are one of the temporal consequences of sin. Separation from God is the eternal consequence of sin.
Owning sin is one of the characteristics of being poor in spirit and is the first step into the kingdom and the primary characteristic of a citizen of the kingdom of heaven. Owning the sin is recognizing the truth. “Sin” is not a made-up offense, as when the intolerance of the world demands we acquiesce to ungodly expectations. Our offense is first against God and then against another. But Jesus uses the word “brother” which means brother, someone near and somehow related. He uses the same word in the previous verses when He speaks to denigrating anyone in the kingdom.
Citizens of the kingdom of heaven are servants of the King of heaven and work toward knowing Him intimately and desiring to be and do His will. This includes offering spiritual worship and keeping clear and righteous relationships with other citizens. Our focus is upon fulfilling the image of God and the likeness of Christ which characterizes the citizen.
Beloved, I urge you as sojourners (strangers) and exiles (aliens) to abstain from the passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul. Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation. (1 Peter 2:11-12 ESV)
We are strangers and aliens in this world. Aliens are citizens of heaven living as exiles, witnesses to the world until they are repatriated. Strangers are passing though the world being prepared by God for eternity.